I’m Going To Need You To Stop Feeding Energy Vampires

If you value yourself, you will value your time, if you value your time you will not put your neck out for an energy vampire, to drain your energy dry.

ย If you are still doing this or have no idea what I’m talking about, then this is for you!

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What & How Do I Feed An Energy Vampire?

Energy vampires are those that go out intentionally to drain your energy, emotionally.

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ย So unlike Count, blood will not spill, these vampires tend to feed off your willingness to be a nice person, and lend them an ear.

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You feed these vampires via being too nice for your own good, and not seeing how toxic they really are and knowing the risk they put on your mental health over time.

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This is not to be confused with someone really looking to reach out to you, these are those that are always looking to take your energy away gain there’s, then when you are low now, they are gone like the wind, or just carry on taking from you, when you have nothing else to give!

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That’s how you’re feeding them, they’re taking your kindness for weakness, and it’s disgusting, and you need to stop letting them do this.

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The Signs Of An Energy Vampire Are?

They don’t tend to have fangs, and they seem to love the smell of Garlic, plus also I would not advise using a stake through their hearts, as I don’t want you in the pen/ A Karen reporting me for promoting stake crime!

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What you can look out for though are the following below…

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They are always in drama not willing to tell you their role in any disagreement or issue.

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They make you feel guilty, and even to blame, for their issues.

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ย If not you, then they blame another, it’s never them.

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They love to gaslight everything that you’re going through so, they can quickly move on to their issues, you know, to drain you!

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They love to play the martyr a lot….

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Furthermore, they put their problems on your shoulders, and take no responsibility for their contributions to their own difficulties.

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What they want is emotional support, to boost their self-esteem because they have none.

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They see kind, compassionate and sensitive people as prey to feast on their energy.

Like I said before you offer an ear, and they go for the neck, and take your energy away knowing damn well you’re becoming weaker.

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They can smell when you will feel guilty about turning down a chance to go out too, and will still ask you out regularly and to hell with your own plans, in fact your plan is now to get drained and dumped to them.

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They will use guilt trips or ultimatums, it’s a tool to do what they want, and knowing that you’re so nice they know you will feel the guilt & give in to it, as you will feel super bad, even though you’ve done nothing wrong.

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They are codependent, this is why a lot of these energy vampires are normally in a dating relationship.

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They create drama, emotional need and are willing to go to bullying, threats and even violence to get what they want, when the guilt-tripping and fake crying does not work.

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They will also play games with you, and waste even more of your time.

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Why I’m Going To Need You To Stop Feeding Them?

If what you’ve read up to now does not want to make you run a mile, or just leave them on read then I’ve got more.

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Me I’m sending them to Blockeisha Island, ๐Ÿ˜‰ never to be found again!

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However, I understand you don’t have the ties that I do to the island, so this is what you do instead.

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Establish boundaries, if you don’t know what your boundaries/ you have none, these vampires will run game on you!

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Stop agreeing to go to lunch and dinners, with these vamps, ok?

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Don’t go on weekend trips, let alone abroad, with these vampires!

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Expectations… Lower them! You cannot fix them, or anyone for that matter, so stop, or die trying!

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You can control you though, so stop giving the vamps a chance to take your energy away.

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Shut off your emotional support for them, when they vent to you, tell them to go somewhere else with that.

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If they call you, text, email, slide a DM on social, either don’t answer or do not let them take it there.

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This takes time and energy, so to be honest; you should not even be talking with them!

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Cut them out all together!

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You should not be with these vampires anyway, it’s them or you at the end of the day.

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When you really see that these energy vampires don’t give a toss about you, and they are using you then you will start to wake up, if you’re about nothing and give your time away like a 2 dollar hoe then that’s on you.

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Just do not moan about these same vamps, as we now know it’s your fault, for keeping them around, still thinking they are for you, just for you….

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In fact, start telling these vamps no and see how they act, try it out and see how they react, I bet you I’ve got more fingers than you’ve got chances, before the mask falls off and they have a showdown with you.

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Or do something you’re not used to seeing, as you always do what they say like a good doggy…

Yeah, that’s how they see your ass.


THATโ€™S IT!

I really enjoyed sharing this with you guys.ย 

ย ย Please do let me know thoughโ€ฆย ย 

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ย Have You Seen Any Of These Traits In Your Own Life

With Now Known Vamps?

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Was This Handy To You At All?

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Let Me Know What The Vamp Says To You

When You Tell Them No?

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Until We Meet Again, Ciao

ย We Look Up ๅคง

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Karim Davidย 

The Healthy Oneย 

87 Comments

  1. Cornell Blake May 6, 2022 at 7:55 am

    Thank you so much, this has made me more aware.

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    1. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:10 am

      Np at all Cornell, I’m happy it has made you more aware of the vamps ๐Ÿ™‚

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  2. John Neaves May 6, 2022 at 8:31 am

    Thank you for the support, I do see them in my life.

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    1. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:11 am

      You’re welcome.

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  3. Ledell Ottey May 6, 2022 at 9:14 am

    Thanks for this ๐Ÿ™‚

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    1. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:11 am

      You’re welcome.

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  4. Jane Harding May 6, 2022 at 10:22 am

    Thank you, I never heard of this term before now, but I can relate to this feeling.

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    1. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:12 am

      You’re welcome, I’m glad that you could still feel it.

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    2. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:19 am

      Enjoy your weekend.

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  5. Larry Ronaldson May 6, 2022 at 10:25 am

    Thank you for the advise.

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    1. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:12 am

      You’re welcome.

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  6. Gary Mitchelson May 6, 2022 at 10:29 am

    Yes I have exp this many times, they take everything from you emotional and I hate them.

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    1. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:12 am

      It really sucks, but hey at least you know.

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  7. Tre Claypoole May 6, 2022 at 10:34 am

    I’m thankful for this, I had seen this in my life, but did not give it a name.

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    1. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:13 am

      Ha, well now you know ๐Ÿ™‚

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  8. Manuel Herreshoff May 6, 2022 at 10:37 am

    Thank you so much Karim!

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    1. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:13 am

      You’re welcome.

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    2. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:19 am

      Enjoy your weekend ๐Ÿ™‚

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  9. Lucks Seckbach May 6, 2022 at 10:45 am

    I got blanked for saying no to one lol.

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    1. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:14 am

      Loool,good!

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  10. Chris Redler May 6, 2022 at 10:47 am

    Lee sent me here.

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    1. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:14 am

      Heyy!

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  11. Camille Lownes May 6, 2022 at 10:52 am

    I was not aware at all lol.

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    1. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:14 am

      Aha, well I’m glad that I made this then ๐Ÿ™‚

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  12. David Koltz May 6, 2022 at 10:57 am

    One of my favourites this year.

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    1. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:15 am

      Thank you so much David.

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    2. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:19 am

      Have a great weekend ๐Ÿ™‚

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  13. Thomas Meyers May 6, 2022 at 10:57 am

    Love this hahaha!

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    1. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:15 am

      ๐Ÿ˜‚ Thank youuuuuuu!

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    2. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:15 am

      Have a great weekend ๐Ÿ™‚

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    3. Karim May 6, 2022 at 11:16 am

      Have a great weekend.

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  14. Deli Vance May 7, 2022 at 5:18 pm

    Thank you so much for this!

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    1. Karim May 8, 2022 at 9:13 am

      You’re welcome

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  15. Kenny Nole May 7, 2022 at 8:10 pm

    This made me write up a list of how my time is spent, thank you so much.

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    1. Karim May 8, 2022 at 9:13 am

      Oh wow, go Kenny! You’re welcome ๐Ÿ™‚

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    2. Karim May 8, 2022 at 9:15 am

      Have a great weekend ๐Ÿ™‚

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  16. Ronny Graham May 7, 2022 at 9:26 pm

    I do need to value my self more, thank you for the support.

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    1. Karim May 8, 2022 at 9:14 am

      You’re welcome.

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  17. Daevin Fleming May 7, 2022 at 10:24 pm

    Yes this was, thanks.

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    1. Karim May 8, 2022 at 9:14 am

      Good, you’re welcome ๐Ÿ™‚

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    2. Karim May 8, 2022 at 9:15 am

      Have a great weekend.

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  18. Tion Cathcart May 8, 2022 at 6:28 am

    Very true, I know so many, I need to cut them out now.

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    1. Karim May 8, 2022 at 9:14 am

      Please do ๐Ÿ™‚

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    2. Karim May 8, 2022 at 9:15 am

      Have a great weekend.

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  19. Kamau Daley May 8, 2022 at 8:00 am

    Cheers for the share.

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  20. Kaven Gilbert May 8, 2022 at 8:28 am

    I found this very helpful, and I will look out for them.

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    1. Karim May 8, 2022 at 9:14 am

      Thanks very much for the feedback & Cool ๐Ÿ™‚

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    2. Karim May 8, 2022 at 9:15 am

      Have a great weekend

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  21. Wes Pettygrove May 9, 2022 at 7:30 am

    Thank you so much for this.

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    1. Karim May 9, 2022 at 1:05 pm

      You’re welcome.

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  22. Alwan Snee May 9, 2022 at 9:10 am

    This was really informative and funny at the same time! Thank you for this.

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    1. Karim May 9, 2022 at 1:06 pm

      Aha you’re welcome & thank you for the feedback.

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  23. Mark Davis May 9, 2022 at 12:33 pm

    Thank you very much.

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    1. Karim May 9, 2022 at 1:06 pm

      Np Mark ๐Ÿ™‚

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  24. Randy Stobo May 9, 2022 at 1:06 pm

    Chris sent me here.

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    1. Karim May 9, 2022 at 1:06 pm

      Hey Randy.

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    2. Karim May 10, 2022 at 11:33 am

      Hey ๐Ÿ™‚

      Reply
  25. Timm Kahler May 9, 2022 at 5:19 pm

    Lee sent me here.

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    1. Karim May 10, 2022 at 11:33 am

      Hey ๐Ÿ™‚

      Reply
  26. Rose Kindler May 9, 2022 at 7:41 pm

    I’ve missed coming here this was great, but I must catch up on your 2022 content.

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    1. Karim May 10, 2022 at 11:34 am

      Thank you so much! Ahaha cool ๐Ÿ™‚

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  27. Simeon Cruz May 9, 2022 at 8:55 pm

    Ahahaha this is gold!

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    1. Karim May 10, 2022 at 11:35 am

      Thank you XD

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  28. Noah Gatfield May 9, 2022 at 10:35 pm

    I had a vamp spaz out on me loooool but it was 3 months ago.

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    1. Karim May 10, 2022 at 11:35 am

      Oh nooo! Not the spaz out XD

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  29. Ray Goethe May 9, 2022 at 11:00 pm

    This was really good, I will do better to spot it.

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    1. Karim May 10, 2022 at 11:35 am

      Thank youuu & cool ๐Ÿ™‚

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  30. Fabi Bott May 10, 2022 at 6:01 am

    Yes very handy for me.

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    1. Karim May 10, 2022 at 11:35 am

      Thank you for the feedback Fabi ๐Ÿ™‚

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  31. Ernest Schmitz May 10, 2022 at 8:53 am

    Yes I’ve seen these traits, I try and keep my distance, but a lot harder when it’s family.

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    1. Karim May 10, 2022 at 11:36 am

      Facts!

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  32. Ronald Gault May 10, 2022 at 9:11 am

    Thank you! I’m taking notes and see what I notice.

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    1. Karim May 10, 2022 at 11:36 am

      You’re welcome ๐Ÿ™‚

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  33. Joachim Haberkorn May 10, 2022 at 9:47 am

    I love this and very funny, thank you for the share.

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    1. Karim May 10, 2022 at 11:36 am

      Aha np at all ๐Ÿ™‚

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  34. Lenny Blanke May 10, 2022 at 10:20 am

    Alex sent me here.

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    1. Karim May 10, 2022 at 11:36 am

      ๐Ÿ™‚

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  35. Jean-Pierre Fabeck May 10, 2022 at 7:21 pm

    Chris sent me here.

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    1. Karim May 11, 2022 at 10:25 am

      ๐Ÿ™‚

      Reply
  36. Olivier Weis May 10, 2022 at 8:50 pm

    I’m sharing this with my friends.

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    1. Karim May 11, 2022 at 10:25 am

      Ty ๐Ÿ™‚

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  37. Edouard Kutter May 10, 2022 at 9:08 pm

    This was really handy, thank you bro.

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    1. Karim May 11, 2022 at 10:25 am

      You’re welcome.

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  38. Julien Clemes May 10, 2022 at 10:00 pm

    Lee sent me here.

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    1. Karim May 11, 2022 at 10:25 am

      Hey Julien!

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  39. Hans Schauss May 10, 2022 at 11:14 pm

    Thank you this was helpful.

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    1. Karim May 11, 2022 at 10:25 am

      You’re welcome ๐Ÿ™‚

      Reply

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